Damon Young, previously of Very Smart Brothas, now of The Root wrote a
poorly argued, badly reasoned and completely fact free post which claimed,
"Black straight men are the white people of the black community". By
this strained metaphor, he apparently meant to say that black straight men are
the evil patriarchs of the black community who are oppressing
heterosexual black women and black gays of either gender. Young writes many
posts like this. It is his calling card. This particular one stood out to me not just because of its usual simple mindededness and lack of empirical data but from the sheer bile towards black men shown by
someone who is a black man himself. Progressive black people are often quick to see
the self-hate when it is on display by someone who is on the right like Jason
Riley or Sheriff Clarke. The left, particularly its feminist circles, can have just as much anti-black male animus. But assessing our privilege (or lack thereof) on these facts considers only our relationship with whiteness and with America. Intraracially, however, our relationship to and with black women is not unlike whiteness’s relationship to us. In fact, it’s eerily similar. We’re the ones for whom the first black president created an entire initiative to assist and uplift. We’re the ones whose beatings and deaths at the hands of the police galvanize the community in a way that the beatings and sexual assaults and deaths that those same police inflict upon black women do not. We’re the ones whose mistreatment inspired a boycott of the NFL despite the NFL’s long history of mishandling and outright ignoring far worse crimes against black women.
We are the ones who get the biggest seat at the table and the biggest piece of chicken at the table despite making the smallest contribution to the meal. And nowhere is this more evident than when considering the collective danger we pose to black women and our collective lack of willingness to accept and make amends for that truth.
It gets worse after that.